The One You Love

The One You Love

I know you need a friend, someone you can talk to
Who will understand what you're going through
When it comes to love, there's no easy answer
Only you can say what you're gonna do
I heard you on the phone, you took his number
Said you weren't alone, but you'd call him soon
Isn't he the guy, the guy who left you cryin'?
Isn't he the one who made you blue?
When you remember those nights in his arms
You know you gotta make up your mind

Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you
Or are you goin' back to the one you love?
Someone's gonna cry when they know they've lost you
Someone's gonna thank the stars above

What you gonna say when he comes over?
There's no easy way to see this through
All the broken dreams, all the disappointment
Oh girl, what you gonna do?
Your heart keeps sayin' it's just not fair
But still you gotta make up your mind

Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you
Or are you goin' back to the one you love?
Someone's gonna cry when they know they've lost you
Someone's gonna thank the stars above

Stoopig

oh ya.. after reading my blog again, i just realised why i blogged.. just wanted to update my schedule..

As penned in my previous entry, i'll be going to Bali next week.. planned to be back in Singapore on Thursday noon. Then suddenly there's a job in Tokyo.. so ill be flying to Tokyo on Thursday night till monday morning..

sob.. cant sleep on my bed for 1 week..

Tired

I just heard on the radio.. it's 37 days to the new year and 31 days to Christmas.. no idea what I'm going to do for Christmas.. hmm.. what did i do last year? oh ya... i remember now...

It has been a busy year and likely to be busy over that period too.

*yawn* im tired.. i reached the office at 7am this morning. Didnt take my dad's car cos he's going to the doc's for a routine checkup.. so i woke up earlier to avoid the peak hour surcharge and ERP.. i just yawned again..

i'm playing mahjong tomorrow, so i am happy.

I just made my first new year resolution.. I'm going to take my CFA!!

muhahahhaha.. i've been wanting to take for two years now and now i think im able to manage my time properly now to do it. <~~~~ ok that last statement probably sounds weird but i know wat im talking about.

Travels

It's actually been a very long time since i was in the office for an entire week. So I was quite apprehensive on how it'd be. I'm already very used to being in the office one day per week. Though this just means i have to squeeze a lot of stuff on that day, it also means i wont get too sick of it.

The first three days were fine cos my boss was out of town. I left work at 5:30pm in those three days. But after he came back, i stayed till 10 pm on both Thursday and Friday. It's not cos he gave me work but cos everyone got more hardworking and so they all submit their stuff to me..

In any case, when he was back on Thursday, it was 2 weeks since i last saw him and we had a meeting and planned out the trips for the next month.

Here goes:

Next week: Chiang Mai and Ho Chi Minh City
Week of Nov 27: Whole week in Bali
Week of 4 Dec: Office Retreat in Bintan
Week of 11 Dec: Sri Lanka and Cambodia (i've never been there so i'm very excited)
Week of 18 Dec: Bali again..

Dont think i'll have time for christmas shopping... =)

Backwards

I realised Im blogging the events backwards.. but then on the blogsite that you read, it'd appear the right way.. haha.. so dumb..

Well, here was the timetable for the past week in case some are confused:

Monday - Interview
Tuesday - Cataract Op
Wed - Fri - Manila

I didnt think the interview went too well.. sianz..i hate going for interview cos they make me excited that in the end dont hire me.. cannot increase my pay... bleah.. i hate them...

Cataract

My mum recently went for a cataract operation.. to remove the cataracts (DUH!)

It was a day surgery and i took leave for it. Im glad i was able to take leave and moved my manila trip back. It was a chop chop affair.. but i knew i'd be nervous so i brought my lappie along to do some work.

After an hr, she was out. I was quite worried she would be dizzy. When i got to the resting room, i saw that she already downed half a cup of milo and there was a used wrapper. She said the cake they gave was very nice and wonderered if there were more. It was then i knew that she was fine. =)

Apparently, the surgery removes your entire lens and replaces it with an artificial one. So it's much clearer now.

Wonder if i shld do lasik.. but i've heard some ple having some probs, which makes me a little nervous. Spend so much money then in the end doesnt really work.

Many-La

Manila is a land of dried mangos and real mangos..

When my dad was travelling back then, he bought tons back and my mum told me to get some too. Since this time my trip was quite relaxed, i did. I called her to ask how many she wanted.. she said 10 packets... but when she heard that it cost S$3 instead of S$5 in singapore. She asked for 15... so i lugged 16 packets of mangos home..

here's the damage..



That wasnt the end.. this time i went with a new colleague, so he was quite excited and all.. changed tons of money. But that was fine, until he decided to change them into smaller notes.. i got all 1,000 peso notes (S$30 each). He got them in 10 peso notes..

let's do the math:

1 note = 1,000 pesos = S$30
i changed S$180.
So i got 6 x 1,000 pesos notes = 6,000 pesos = 6 notes.

the bugger changed S$300.
so he got 9 x 1,000 peso notes = 9,000 pesos = 9 notes. Then he changed into 10 peso notes, so he got

9 x 100 = 900 10-peso notes...

If you do the math, a 10-peso note is actually 30 Singapore cents!

When he reached, he realised he made a boo boo. I felt bad for him so i changed 1,00 0 pesos from him.. here's the stack..



We decided to get rid of the notes when we bought dried mangos... i bought 16 packets and he bought 5. Remember each costs S$3, which means it's ten 10-peso notes for 1 packet of dried mangos. He queued first and he was happy counting his 5 x 10 = 50 10-peso notes. Then the counter lady said that the 10-peso notes have been phased out
!!!!!!!!!!!! muhahahahahahhahahahahahah. We ended up begging them to take our 10-pesos and they had to make many many phone calls to banks, to their management. Hahahaha.. so dumb..

I felt like a money-launderer that day.

I used the remaining pesos i got to buy... what else.. donuts..

Manila

Here're some of the pics of the room i stayed in Manila.. quite nice actually but the toilet is damn small. Actually, i think my colleague and I supposed to get the same kind of room but at the check-in place when we arrived, they told me my room was not ready yet and i had to wait for another hour. But i had a meeting in 10 minutes so i raised hell with them.

In the end, i washed up in his room and when i finally got my rm after the meeting, it turned out to be a HUGE room..





here're some pictures of the skyline..check out the horrendhous traffic man... bleah..

Map

I saw this on SPUG.. i thought it was damn funny.. muhahahaha...the world according to some singaporeans.. muahahah.. very true.. i heard it came from Mrbrown.com but i dont know.. didnt see it there..

ps: must click to see more clearly.

Seconds

I got an email from the headhunter that i got through to the second interview..

then i asked her how many candidates.. she emailed me to say:

There are 2 "C's" to look out for in all interviews:

[1] the 1st C - is Competence - which all candidates should possess if they are shortlisted. - So worries here...

[2] the 2nd C - is Chemistry - Hiring Managers only hire people whom they like - many times not the most qualified candidate but the most likable candidate will get the job.

Hence, our pointers about Enthusiasm - it showing on your face, in your voice and in your body language - dressing well gives a good impression - especially in the Hotel Industry. Speaking well with good English, diction - making oneself understood fully, clearly - not speaking too fast, etc...

In a nut shell, building rapport with the Interviewer does good in any interview.

Do not be concerned about other candidates, I always believe in my candidates and I believe that they are most suited for the position I send them to.

I will speak with you on Monday morning - please call me at my office

BTW, your dressing should be a Business Suit - Hotel Standard, k? Please vat through the Job Description

Jus thought i'd copy it here for would be job interviees.