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Friday, December 27, 2013
Thursday, December 26, 2013
Arrived!
I know I have arrived as a home party host when I have this in my home.
We bought this at the hotel supplies place.
Given its the festive season and we have our new place, we arrange for our various group of friends to come over. We had one party last weekend with some of Someone's ex-colleagues.
Then on last night, we had another group of 12. We have just enough chairs and stools for everyone! We dont even have enough cutlery even though we bought some from the hotel supplies place.
Then today, my team will be coming over - without Old Aunty. She's on leave so I took that as an excuse to not invite here as "I dont know if she's out of the country".
Phew, cant wait for the party season to be over so that I can just simply enjoy my new apartment.
Wednesday, December 25, 2013
Yummy!
Someone had some friends over in Shanghai last weekend. Spent a good part of Saturday with them.
We are so different. I'm much more anti-social. When I know of friends coming to Shanghai, I lie and tell them I'm travelling. Haha. In fact, a Singapore friend asked me to join our other SG friends for dinner cos they knew that Someone was entertaining friends. I told her I wasn't feeling well.
With that, I began my perfect weekend of TV and more TV and one of my favourite drinks. Buy one and the second one is 50% off. W00t!
We are so different. I'm much more anti-social. When I know of friends coming to Shanghai, I lie and tell them I'm travelling. Haha. In fact, a Singapore friend asked me to join our other SG friends for dinner cos they knew that Someone was entertaining friends. I told her I wasn't feeling well.
With that, I began my perfect weekend of TV and more TV and one of my favourite drinks. Buy one and the second one is 50% off. W00t!
Tuesday, December 24, 2013
Well Hung!
Wanted to hang some pictures the other day.
Realised I never hung one before.
I have seen pictures being professionally hung before. There were a lot of calculations.
I decided that I needed to do a lot of calculations too.
It has to be in the centre of the wall. No shit.
Because the hooks we had were rather long, so we needed to use two so that the point of hanging can be lower and therefore not peek out of the frame.
Therefore, the hooks have to be equidistant apart.
Decided to draw a modal diagram.
Realised I never hung one before.
I have seen pictures being professionally hung before. There were a lot of calculations.
I decided that I needed to do a lot of calculations too.
It has to be in the centre of the wall. No shit.
Because the hooks we had were rather long, so we needed to use two so that the point of hanging can be lower and therefore not peek out of the frame.
Therefore, the hooks have to be equidistant apart.
Decided to draw a modal diagram.
Monday, December 23, 2013
Sunday, December 22, 2013
Dim and Dimmer
When I decided that I wasnt going to renew Old Aunty, I began to think about what I'd say.
Should I take the apologetic approach where I go "It's not you, it's us"?
Or should I go full on and let go a full torrent?
A few interesting ones came to mind.
I thought of pointing and saying to her..朽木...你是朽木!Hopefully that would be suffice.
And then I thought of another tack.
There's this lamp in our now old place. It's a lamp that looks interesting but it's actually made up of many little bulbs that were all working when we moved in. A year on, a lot of the bulbs blew and all that's left was this:
Should I take the apologetic approach where I go "It's not you, it's us"?
Or should I go full on and let go a full torrent?
A few interesting ones came to mind.
I thought of pointing and saying to her..朽木...你是朽木!Hopefully that would be suffice.
And then I thought of another tack.
There's this lamp in our now old place. It's a lamp that looks interesting but it's actually made up of many little bulbs that were all working when we moved in. A year on, a lot of the bulbs blew and all that's left was this:
So I thought, I could show her the picture and saw you're dimmer than this dim lamp.
Still undecided on this.
Saturday, December 21, 2013
New Furniture!
With a bigger place, we sought to find more furniture. Someone actually never asks me for anything but she had seemed keen to add more furniture so agreeing seemed to be a logical step.
At the same time, I was inspired by somebody who told me he likes quality furniture. I decided I shouldnt lose to him.
We passed by this Chinese furniture shop the other day. It advertised that it was having a closing down sale. I'm not sure how true that is but the stuff inside looked interesting.
We saw a table which looked interesting to be placed on this particular short wall for our wallets and keys. Then we saw another one exactly the same but in a different wood but double the price! Of course he said that the second one is made of a better quality wood.
After a quick google, we verified that this was indeed true (although there's no way of knowing that it's actually made of that wood. Haha) and whacked it. Subsequently, after we left, i was kinda surprised that we made a decision to spend so much on a tiny table in such a short time.
Here it is, in all its varnished glory.
For some reason, I was very attracted to this table. Dont know why. Managed to bargain it down a little, then BUY! Havent really decided if I want to put it at home or in my office.
Saw this little stool. Thought it'd be perfect to be put in the hallway to wear shoes.
Then we asked for a bundle price for this as well. Too many stools in the house so this is beside the couch as a mini coffee table of sort.
At the same time, I was inspired by somebody who told me he likes quality furniture. I decided I shouldnt lose to him.
We passed by this Chinese furniture shop the other day. It advertised that it was having a closing down sale. I'm not sure how true that is but the stuff inside looked interesting.
We saw a table which looked interesting to be placed on this particular short wall for our wallets and keys. Then we saw another one exactly the same but in a different wood but double the price! Of course he said that the second one is made of a better quality wood.
After a quick google, we verified that this was indeed true (although there's no way of knowing that it's actually made of that wood. Haha) and whacked it. Subsequently, after we left, i was kinda surprised that we made a decision to spend so much on a tiny table in such a short time.
Here it is, in all its varnished glory.
For some reason, I was very attracted to this table. Dont know why. Managed to bargain it down a little, then BUY! Havent really decided if I want to put it at home or in my office.
Saw this little stool. Thought it'd be perfect to be put in the hallway to wear shoes.
Then we asked for a bundle price for this as well. Too many stools in the house so this is beside the couch as a mini coffee table of sort.
Friday, December 20, 2013
Didnt Get the Hint
A few of you have messaged me to ask about Old Aunty.
Yes, she didnt get the hint. She thinks I was being too personal. Wrote me an email late the night of the review.
Now I'm pissed.
Yes, she didnt get the hint. She thinks I was being too personal. Wrote me an email late the night of the review.
Now I'm pissed.
"看了你对我的一年的综合评价感到十分气愤,等我休假回公司后我需要与你逐条沟通,摆事实讲道理,希望你实事求是地正确地评价一个人,否则我会向公司申诉的."
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
Blah..
The review on Old Aunty's last working day for 2013 didnt go very well but that was expected.
She felt indignant and felt that I gave her a bad review cos I didnt like her personally.
I told her that I didnt didnt like her personally but I just didnt like the poor quality of her work.
She said that she felt that the President supported her more but little did she know that I'm already getting into trouble with the President for not getting rid of her earlier. Haha. What a douche.
I actually think I'll take pleasure in getting rid of her.
She felt indignant and felt that I gave her a bad review cos I didnt like her personally.
I told her that I didnt didnt like her personally but I just didnt like the poor quality of her work.
She said that she felt that the President supported her more but little did she know that I'm already getting into trouble with the President for not getting rid of her earlier. Haha. What a douche.
I actually think I'll take pleasure in getting rid of her.
Tuesday, December 17, 2013
IT Box
In this day and age, I think there arent many households that do not have an IT box to put all their IT peripherals.
Given i'm a wannabe-geek, our IT box is super full and very messy. Took the opportunity of the move to sort things out.
Gosh so many things.. micro USB, 30-pin power cable, lightning, power plugs, battery packs...
Given i'm a wannabe-geek, our IT box is super full and very messy. Took the opportunity of the move to sort things out.
Gosh so many things.. micro USB, 30-pin power cable, lightning, power plugs, battery packs...
Sounds like a no brainer but I have decided to categories them according to the type of connections.
Monday, December 16, 2013
End of Days
I mentioned earlier about the timetable leading to the beginning of the end for Old Aunty.
She applied for leave the other day so her last working day is 16 December, returning to work on 2 January.
I am on leave and back in the office on 6 January.
Then the entire department is supposed to be fly off to Singapore on 8 January for a meeting. Since we arent going to renew her contract, no point wasting money for her to fly to Singapore.
So with that, i'm going to have to not renew her on 6 January.
I wanted to give her a subtle warning so i told her that i wanted to do her review before she went on leave but she went back and forth on why it should be in January since she should be graded on full year results. I actually thought it might be easier on her if I gave her some subtle head's up before January so I insisted.
Oh well... so difficult this one.
She applied for leave the other day so her last working day is 16 December, returning to work on 2 January.
I am on leave and back in the office on 6 January.
Then the entire department is supposed to be fly off to Singapore on 8 January for a meeting. Since we arent going to renew her contract, no point wasting money for her to fly to Singapore.
So with that, i'm going to have to not renew her on 6 January.
I wanted to give her a subtle warning so i told her that i wanted to do her review before she went on leave but she went back and forth on why it should be in January since she should be graded on full year results. I actually thought it might be easier on her if I gave her some subtle head's up before January so I insisted.
Oh well... so difficult this one.
Sunday, December 15, 2013
Saint
Someone is a saint sometimes.
We found a new Taiwanese hotpot place recently which was very delicious. We have been going there twice a week.
One of the waiter is from Taipei and he didnt look too happy working in Shanghai.
So, Someone brought him a packet of ready-to-eat braised pork gravy thingy which we bought from Taipei to help him with his homesickness.
We found a new Taiwanese hotpot place recently which was very delicious. We have been going there twice a week.
One of the waiter is from Taipei and he didnt look too happy working in Shanghai.
So, Someone brought him a packet of ready-to-eat braised pork gravy thingy which we bought from Taipei to help him with his homesickness.
Saturday, December 14, 2013
Moved!
We moved today.
Someone basically arranged for our move with the movers from Singapore to Shanghai in May.
Then in July arranged for the unpacking of the stuff.
Then now the packing and unpacking of all our items. She's getting very experienced, but she hates it. She's very good at it though. It's exactly 12 hours since we started the process and now everything is in order.
The weather was good today too. From psi of 600+ last weekend to 97 today.
Remember a time in Singapore when 97 was hazardous and everyone get their undies in a bunch when that happens?
Now 97 is the new 27.
I'm bushed.
Someone basically arranged for our move with the movers from Singapore to Shanghai in May.
Then in July arranged for the unpacking of the stuff.
Then now the packing and unpacking of all our items. She's getting very experienced, but she hates it. She's very good at it though. It's exactly 12 hours since we started the process and now everything is in order.
The weather was good today too. From psi of 600+ last weekend to 97 today.
Remember a time in Singapore when 97 was hazardous and everyone get their undies in a bunch when that happens?
Now 97 is the new 27.
I'm bushed.
Friday, December 13, 2013
Departures
A few weeks ago, I received news that the President of my previous company left the company, presumably due to poor performance of the company. That was shocking to me because he was actually one of the founders and part owner of the company.
He has a very bad temper. I once saw him throw his cell phone on a restaurant table WHILE WALKING TOWARDS THE TABLE. That was scary.
In any case, I guess his temper didnt go down well with the board members.
Then just this Monday, I heard that my first ever boss left the company. That was even more weird. I guess that gels with my earlier post in which he said my note "came at the right time".
I texted him the other day and he hasnt replied. So many questions are swirling in my head.
He has a very bad temper. I once saw him throw his cell phone on a restaurant table WHILE WALKING TOWARDS THE TABLE. That was scary.
In any case, I guess his temper didnt go down well with the board members.
Then just this Monday, I heard that my first ever boss left the company. That was even more weird. I guess that gels with my earlier post in which he said my note "came at the right time".
I texted him the other day and he hasnt replied. So many questions are swirling in my head.
Thursday, December 12, 2013
Wednesday, December 11, 2013
Hotel Supplies
We have long heard about wholesale warehouses or the likes where they sell hotel operating supplies like cutlery, crockery and what not.
Always interested to go but our current apartment is just so small that there's hardly enough space for additional stuff.
Of course, now it's a different situation so we went the other day.
It was surprisingly run-down but even more surprisingly well stocked. For someone who has travelled as much as me, it's actual kinda familiar seeing those items in hotels I have stayed. It actually felt like toy 'r' us but for adults.
We saw this. Wonder if we should buy this to put ice milo since our house is so big now.
Of course, given that we love to eat sushi so much, we contemplated getting this dragon boat to put sushi in. That'd really signify that we have arrived!
Always interested to go but our current apartment is just so small that there's hardly enough space for additional stuff.
Of course, now it's a different situation so we went the other day.
It was surprisingly run-down but even more surprisingly well stocked. For someone who has travelled as much as me, it's actual kinda familiar seeing those items in hotels I have stayed. It actually felt like toy 'r' us but for adults.
We saw this. Wonder if we should buy this to put ice milo since our house is so big now.
Of course, given that we love to eat sushi so much, we contemplated getting this dragon boat to put sushi in. That'd really signify that we have arrived!
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Monday, December 09, 2013
WIFI? Repeater?
Landlord just texted us to say he has installed the internet and WIFI in the room.
Now I dont know what to do with my WIFI router. Maybe use it as a repeater since the house is SOOOO big. Haha.
Have I mentioned how big it is?
It's 203sqm. I think I might get a little scared if there's a thunderstorm and I'm alone at home.
Now I dont know what to do with my WIFI router. Maybe use it as a repeater since the house is SOOOO big. Haha.
Have I mentioned how big it is?
It's 203sqm. I think I might get a little scared if there's a thunderstorm and I'm alone at home.
Sunday, December 08, 2013
Blah
Another downside of managing people is that you have to do yearly reviews. It's like playing Santa, remembering if they have been good or bad all year round and thus determining what "gifts" they get for, in this case, CNY.
Last year, I only had to review three people but now that I added two more people... more work.
All these review criteria have these corporate speak that I dont really understand at first glance and that makes it taxing to read and understand and then assess against my team.
I wonder what my review would be.
*scary*
Last year, I only had to review three people but now that I added two more people... more work.
All these review criteria have these corporate speak that I dont really understand at first glance and that makes it taxing to read and understand and then assess against my team.
I wonder what my review would be.
*scary*
Saturday, December 07, 2013
Gay?
It was the Shanghai marathon today and I had seen from my Landlord's wechat this morning that he was running it.
Later in the afternoon, he sent me some pics of him at the starting line??!?
I didnt know what to say so I gave him a thumbs up emoticon.
Then he said, I should go train up so that we can run together??!?
I told him that Someone and I had signed up for the gym at the new condo.
Then he gave me a thumbs up.
.....
I believe Landlord is going to feature quite a few times over the next two years.
Later in the afternoon, he sent me some pics of him at the starting line??!?
I didnt know what to say so I gave him a thumbs up emoticon.
Then he said, I should go train up so that we can run together??!?
I told him that Someone and I had signed up for the gym at the new condo.
Then he gave me a thumbs up.
.....
I believe Landlord is going to feature quite a few times over the next two years.
Friday, December 06, 2013
Bummer
I was informed by HR that the cleanest way to remove Old Aunty was not to renew her contract.
Her contract expires 1 March.
Then I was further informed that I need to inform he 30 days before then in order for it to be valid.
That means I need to tell her at least before the end of January.
CNY is 31 Janaury.
Damn... that means I am going to sack a PRC person before CNY.
I am so not looking forward to that conversation.
Her contract expires 1 March.
Then I was further informed that I need to inform he 30 days before then in order for it to be valid.
That means I need to tell her at least before the end of January.
CNY is 31 Janaury.
Damn... that means I am going to sack a PRC person before CNY.
I am so not looking forward to that conversation.
Thursday, December 05, 2013
Landlord
We signed the lease for the new apartment the other day. I was quite apprehensive leading to it because the place was just too cheap to be true. For a 14% increase in rent, we got a 93% increase in size! That didnt make any sense.
It was a kinda weird process because for the first time, the landlord and I exchanged name cards.
It turned out that we both knew of each others' companies and I even knew some people from his team. It was a quick 5 minutes of reminiscing. Haha. He even said he would ask me out for drinks if he's nearby. Landlord was quite a senior person and of cos my namecard made it look like I am a senior person too. Anyway, it turns out that Landlord works for the company which developed this condominium development. Now it made sense to me that he probably got the unit cheap and was more concerned about finding a good clean tenant than the rent quantum.
He quickly signed the lease without much checking and didnt even count the three months' worth of rent in cash.
After signing everything, he asked if we were free to go to the nearby electronics store to pick out the appliances we needed him to buy.
That was a little odd for us because we had originally offered to go buy it ourselves and save him the trouble if he just gave us the budget. He told the agent to tell us - 自己的 东西,我会自己去买。
We first went to the TV section. He said he wanted Sony.
WHAT??!? Sony? For your tenants?
He pointed to one and asked me what I thought. I told him that Sony is overpriced and I think other brands like Samsung was better. He then went to choose a 51" and 32" for the living and master room after haggling a bit with the sales person.
He then chose a huge-ass two door fridge (local brand) and a Siemens washing machine.
All throughout, I was telling Someone that the bugger was choosing them faster than us when we were buying appliances for our place in Singapore! So this is was 受宠若惊 is about.
All these in contrast with our current landlord who didnt allow us to terminate the lease earlier and insisted we pay for the full term.
*At the time of typing this post, Landlord sent us pictures of the TVs that arrived. He even applied for internet for us which he will be paying for.
W00t!
It was a kinda weird process because for the first time, the landlord and I exchanged name cards.
It turned out that we both knew of each others' companies and I even knew some people from his team. It was a quick 5 minutes of reminiscing. Haha. He even said he would ask me out for drinks if he's nearby. Landlord was quite a senior person and of cos my namecard made it look like I am a senior person too. Anyway, it turns out that Landlord works for the company which developed this condominium development. Now it made sense to me that he probably got the unit cheap and was more concerned about finding a good clean tenant than the rent quantum.
He quickly signed the lease without much checking and didnt even count the three months' worth of rent in cash.
After signing everything, he asked if we were free to go to the nearby electronics store to pick out the appliances we needed him to buy.
That was a little odd for us because we had originally offered to go buy it ourselves and save him the trouble if he just gave us the budget. He told the agent to tell us - 自己的 东西,我会自己去买。
We first went to the TV section. He said he wanted Sony.
WHAT??!? Sony? For your tenants?
He pointed to one and asked me what I thought. I told him that Sony is overpriced and I think other brands like Samsung was better. He then went to choose a 51" and 32" for the living and master room after haggling a bit with the sales person.
He then chose a huge-ass two door fridge (local brand) and a Siemens washing machine.
All throughout, I was telling Someone that the bugger was choosing them faster than us when we were buying appliances for our place in Singapore! So this is was 受宠若惊 is about.
All these in contrast with our current landlord who didnt allow us to terminate the lease earlier and insisted we pay for the full term.
*At the time of typing this post, Landlord sent us pictures of the TVs that arrived. He even applied for internet for us which he will be paying for.
W00t!
Wednesday, December 04, 2013
Fruitcake or Fruitloop?
When I told my President of my decision to drop Old Aunty, he told me he always thought she was a fruitcake.
A fruitcake!
Gosh. He's British, so I guess his terms can sometimes be from British teatime snacks.
When he was in town a few weeks back, we talked about this again and he called her a Fruitloop. We are going American snacks now I guess.
Told me to ask HR to begin the proceedings.
Then he asked me when I'm going to let go of Small Boy. He's called Small Boy because he felt that he was rather immature. I agree but I thought that he can be nurtured and trained. A year has passed but the improvement isnt that great and now President is impatient. That is/was a hard call.
A fruitcake!
Gosh. He's British, so I guess his terms can sometimes be from British teatime snacks.
When he was in town a few weeks back, we talked about this again and he called her a Fruitloop. We are going American snacks now I guess.
Told me to ask HR to begin the proceedings.
Then he asked me when I'm going to let go of Small Boy. He's called Small Boy because he felt that he was rather immature. I agree but I thought that he can be nurtured and trained. A year has passed but the improvement isnt that great and now President is impatient. That is/was a hard call.
Tuesday, December 03, 2013
Serendipity?
It was a little serendipitous how we found our new apartment.
Someone has been trawling condominium developments in areas that we think we like to live for quite some weeks now. Not a mean feat considering it's cold and she had to contend with agents who would promise to show her the units that she saw in the ads and wanted to see, but end up bringing her around to others because the ads are either outdated and units were rented out already or they are just fake ads. The ads here that show very nice pictures are fake because these are showroom pictures. I typically let her go alone because if it's a unit she doesnt like, I dont need to bother looking.
Anyway, we kinda identified a development which we prefer because three of our friends live here. Two of them are a childless couple who are rather nice but rather odd at the same time. (I just found out the wife switches off her 3G most of the time due to the radiation. She only whatsapps on WIFI or switches to 3G when she wants to whatsapp.)
Anyway, on one of her solo trips, Someone saw an apartment there which exceeded our size requirements but was kinda old and dirty. But it's cheap! In fact too cheap to be true.
We went the next day to see other units in the same development. We saw one unit we liked alot and my mind was set on it. Someone thought it would be good to see the big and old but cheap unit but then it was raining and winds were howling and I thought I had already found our unit already so I wanted to skip it.
We found out that the agent had already made the appointment for us and the landlord had already arrived, so we thought just do a quick one.
When I went in, the unit was brightly lit and very clean! Someone was shocked too. It didnt look like the unit she saw the day before! I was like, this unit has become big, clean, bright and cheap!
This was how we found our new apartment. Big, clean, bright and cheap!
W00t!
Someone has been trawling condominium developments in areas that we think we like to live for quite some weeks now. Not a mean feat considering it's cold and she had to contend with agents who would promise to show her the units that she saw in the ads and wanted to see, but end up bringing her around to others because the ads are either outdated and units were rented out already or they are just fake ads. The ads here that show very nice pictures are fake because these are showroom pictures. I typically let her go alone because if it's a unit she doesnt like, I dont need to bother looking.
Anyway, we kinda identified a development which we prefer because three of our friends live here. Two of them are a childless couple who are rather nice but rather odd at the same time. (I just found out the wife switches off her 3G most of the time due to the radiation. She only whatsapps on WIFI or switches to 3G when she wants to whatsapp.)
Anyway, on one of her solo trips, Someone saw an apartment there which exceeded our size requirements but was kinda old and dirty. But it's cheap! In fact too cheap to be true.
We went the next day to see other units in the same development. We saw one unit we liked alot and my mind was set on it. Someone thought it would be good to see the big and old but cheap unit but then it was raining and winds were howling and I thought I had already found our unit already so I wanted to skip it.
We found out that the agent had already made the appointment for us and the landlord had already arrived, so we thought just do a quick one.
When I went in, the unit was brightly lit and very clean! Someone was shocked too. It didnt look like the unit she saw the day before! I was like, this unit has become big, clean, bright and cheap!
This was how we found our new apartment. Big, clean, bright and cheap!
W00t!
Monday, December 02, 2013
Flaking
It's getting dry with the winter.
It's time to moisturise or fossilise.
But I dont like to moisturise. I hate the sticky and oily feeling on my feet, my hands and my thighs.
YUCK.
Therefore I always avoid applying unless it's absolutely necessary.
It is absolutely necessary when I saw all the dead skin when I removed my leggings the other day.

That night, I immediately buah-ed big time!
It's time to moisturise or fossilise.
But I dont like to moisturise. I hate the sticky and oily feeling on my feet, my hands and my thighs.
YUCK.
Therefore I always avoid applying unless it's absolutely necessary.
It is absolutely necessary when I saw all the dead skin when I removed my leggings the other day.
That night, I immediately buah-ed big time!
Sunday, December 01, 2013
Gulp
After more than a year in my job, i have had enough of the old aunty in my team and have decided to sack her.
The truth is on the first day of work a year back in Singapore, the head of HR told me that my predecessor said that she was useless on the last day of work.
Then on my first day in Shanghai, the head of operations told me that I should just sack the entire team (Old Aunty and Small Boy) and start over. More about Small Boy later.
On my President's first trip to Shanghai after I came onboard, his first statement to me was that he was worried about the quality of my team.
The straw that broke the camel's back for me was that the Old Aunty made a mistake the other day in the contracts that puts the company in default IMMEDIATELY upon signing. The best thing is she didnt realise the mistake and it was the client who found it. I called her and the analyst into the office the next day at 8am to explain what happened. The meeting was at that time because i had a 9am meeting for the whole day for the same project in question.
She came in at 815am all huffed and puffed and said there was a traffic jam.
After some questioning which I dont want to get into too much details, she said we can still be 理直气壮about it because the contract isnt signed yet!
理直气壮!!
I said that how can you say that when it's your fault and if the client hadnt pointed it out, we would have been in default!
With that, she sealed her fate.
The truth is on the first day of work a year back in Singapore, the head of HR told me that my predecessor said that she was useless on the last day of work.
Then on my first day in Shanghai, the head of operations told me that I should just sack the entire team (Old Aunty and Small Boy) and start over. More about Small Boy later.
On my President's first trip to Shanghai after I came onboard, his first statement to me was that he was worried about the quality of my team.
The straw that broke the camel's back for me was that the Old Aunty made a mistake the other day in the contracts that puts the company in default IMMEDIATELY upon signing. The best thing is she didnt realise the mistake and it was the client who found it. I called her and the analyst into the office the next day at 8am to explain what happened. The meeting was at that time because i had a 9am meeting for the whole day for the same project in question.
She came in at 815am all huffed and puffed and said there was a traffic jam.
After some questioning which I dont want to get into too much details, she said we can still be 理直气壮about it because the contract isnt signed yet!
理直气壮!!
I said that how can you say that when it's your fault and if the client hadnt pointed it out, we would have been in default!
With that, she sealed her fate.
Friday, November 29, 2013
Moving On
The lease on our Shanghai apartment is expiring at the end of January.
We will be moving out because the place is getting too small for us. I think we underestimated the amount of space additional winter clothing would take.
End January isn’t good because it’s CNY then and it’s a pain to get anything done during that time, plus the fact we will be back in Singapore.
With the dates pulled forward, it seems like we will be moving in three weeks time!
Quite tiring really. We moved to our new apartment in Singapore in Dec 2011, then moved to Shanghai to a serviced apartment in October 2013, then moved to Shanghai apartment in February 2013 and now we are likely moving in December 2013. We would likely be signing a two-year lease on this one so hopefully we will be more settled.
We will be moving out because the place is getting too small for us. I think we underestimated the amount of space additional winter clothing would take.
End January isn’t good because it’s CNY then and it’s a pain to get anything done during that time, plus the fact we will be back in Singapore.
With the dates pulled forward, it seems like we will be moving in three weeks time!
Quite tiring really. We moved to our new apartment in Singapore in Dec 2011, then moved to Shanghai to a serviced apartment in October 2013, then moved to Shanghai apartment in February 2013 and now we are likely moving in December 2013. We would likely be signing a two-year lease on this one so hopefully we will be more settled.
Thursday, November 28, 2013
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Yumz
My legal team actually last came from Singapore in early October.
It was the first time they came ever since I moved here.
They asked me how life here was and I told me basically how it's an effort to find food we trust and how we missed Singapore food.
Head of Legal told me to tell him what I needed the next time he came.
Before he came this week, I was surprised he remembered and asked me.
After some deliberation, we decided to be thick-skinned and asked for:
Two pandan cakes and one kueh lapis!
YAY!
It was the first time they came ever since I moved here.
They asked me how life here was and I told me basically how it's an effort to find food we trust and how we missed Singapore food.
Head of Legal told me to tell him what I needed the next time he came.
Before he came this week, I was surprised he remembered and asked me.
After some deliberation, we decided to be thick-skinned and asked for:
Two pandan cakes and one kueh lapis!
YAY!
Tuesday, November 26, 2013
Chopped Sticks
Perhaps Im talking too much about disposable chopsticks.
Remember I mentioned that I bring these to work to stir my drinks?
Someone told me recently not to use disposable chopsticks that come seperated as opposed to those that are stuck together.
There's a chance that the separated ones have been recycled.
*GULP*
There goes this one...
So many things to consider when living in China.
Remember I mentioned that I bring these to work to stir my drinks?
Someone told me recently not to use disposable chopsticks that come seperated as opposed to those that are stuck together.
There's a chance that the separated ones have been recycled.
*GULP*
There goes this one...
So many things to consider when living in China.
Monday, November 25, 2013
Mentor
I recently wrote this email to my first boss:
"Dear
I was recently asked to be part of a mentorship group to mentor promising and high potential individuals within.
One of the mentor preparation sessions required us to draw out our career journey and our mentors along the way and list out the mentors’ characteristics.
Whilst doing that, I thought about how you gave me my first job and also guided me in the formative years in my career and I wanted to drop you a note to thank you.
Have a good weekend. "
His reply came as follows:
"Dear Cornball,
You are a rare gem and I thank God for bringing you into my life.
It's a joy to journey with you.
Thank you for your encouragement which came at the right moment.
Have a blessed weekend."
I thought it was sweet but yet a little too mushy. Haha, but it did warm my heart.
"Dear
I was recently asked to be part of a mentorship group to mentor promising and high potential individuals within
One of the mentor preparation sessions required us to draw out our career journey and our mentors along the way and list out the mentors’ characteristics.
Whilst doing that, I thought about how you gave me my first job and also guided me in the formative years in my career and I wanted to drop you a note to thank you.
Have a good weekend.
His reply came as follows:
"Dear Cornball,
You are a rare gem and I thank God for bringing you into my life.
It's a joy to journey with you.
Thank you for your encouragement which came at the right moment.
Have a blessed weekend."
I thought it was sweet but yet a little too mushy. Haha, but it did warm my heart.
Sunday, November 24, 2013
Journey to the East
The stadium where we watched the badminton tournament is far out in eastern Shanghai. It's in an area we have never been before but we heard there's a good Singaporean restaurant nearby. Because we couldnt find a cab, we walked 1.2km in the cold searching for it.
The person who introduced was said it was called "Tues Restaurant".
Turns out, it was called:
It was well worth the walk!
Best carrot cake I have eaten for a long time! Certainly can fight with Chomp Chomp and the likes.
The two of us ordered that, plus prawn paste chicken, plus curry chicken and rice plus hor fun! Haha.. yes it's a lot I know but hey, it's very far from where we stay!
We even dabao-ed two portions of carrot cake back to be frozen and re-heated another day. Hee hee.
The person who introduced was said it was called "Tues Restaurant".
Turns out, it was called:
It was well worth the walk!
Best carrot cake I have eaten for a long time! Certainly can fight with Chomp Chomp and the likes.
The two of us ordered that, plus prawn paste chicken, plus curry chicken and rice plus hor fun! Haha.. yes it's a lot I know but hey, it's very far from where we stay!
We even dabao-ed two portions of carrot cake back to be frozen and re-heated another day. Hee hee.
Saturday, November 23, 2013
Disappointed?
I am sorry that after a relatively short break from blogging, all you got was a picture of banana and pineapple pies.
It was a stressful week for me this week.
My President was in town and so was my legal counsel. They were here to help me close this particularly tough deal to close. To date, the company has been trying to close this for more than two years now. Tough and rather unreasonable client.
Therefore, the whole gang was in town to close them.
I learnt a little on negotiations through this episode. Legal team arrived on Sunday night for a full day of meetings on Monday. Then my President came in on Monday evening, ready to step in on Tuesday to clear some big ticket items over lunch and then the both sides' working teams returned to our office to trash out the wordings and the details. All this time, my President stayed in my office, ready to step in anytime.
And then at about 5:50pm (it was almost as if everyone wanted to end on time and not do OT), everything was settled and then everyone shook hands, hugged and took pictures.
Now, all that's left is the drafting and our legal team has the unenviable task of getting all the documents ready signing ceremony on 4 December.
I think my work is done for now. At least it's a deal in Shanghai, which is a big city.
It was a stressful week for me this week.
My President was in town and so was my legal counsel. They were here to help me close this particularly tough deal to close. To date, the company has been trying to close this for more than two years now. Tough and rather unreasonable client.
Therefore, the whole gang was in town to close them.
I learnt a little on negotiations through this episode. Legal team arrived on Sunday night for a full day of meetings on Monday. Then my President came in on Monday evening, ready to step in on Tuesday to clear some big ticket items over lunch and then the both sides' working teams returned to our office to trash out the wordings and the details. All this time, my President stayed in my office, ready to step in anytime.
And then at about 5:50pm (it was almost as if everyone wanted to end on time and not do OT), everything was settled and then everyone shook hands, hugged and took pictures.
Now, all that's left is the drafting and our legal team has the unenviable task of getting all the documents ready signing ceremony on 4 December.
I think my work is done for now. At least it's a deal in Shanghai, which is a big city.
Wednesday, November 20, 2013
Yummy!
Macdonalds and other fast food chains always pride themselves with maintaining the purity of their menu globally. In recent years, they have started to localise their menus.
I recently saw this at the Macs.
My favourite item at Macs is actually the apple pie. Now, they have it in pineapple and banana! Two of my favourite fruits!
I recently saw this at the Macs.
My favourite item at Macs is actually the apple pie. Now, they have it in pineapple and banana! Two of my favourite fruits!
Monday, November 18, 2013
Sunday, November 17, 2013
Expensive Tickets!
One of the things we were excited to do in China before we moved to Shanghai was to... watch live badminton games.
We watched some games before in Singapore but I actually dont really like to watch because you need to pay 100% attention or else you will miss the beautiful shots. There's no repeats like on TV.
In Singapore, we typically get some free tickets from some lobang. We dont have any lobangs in Shanghai.
I was shocked to see that it was S$60 per person for the Saturday matches and S$100 per person for Sunday's finals!!
With prices so expensive, I'd better keeep my eyes wide open for every shot!
Almost the same price as a musical in Singapore. Maybe musicals here are cheaper given people arent so cultured here.
We watched some games before in Singapore but I actually dont really like to watch because you need to pay 100% attention or else you will miss the beautiful shots. There's no repeats like on TV.
In Singapore, we typically get some free tickets from some lobang. We dont have any lobangs in Shanghai.
I was shocked to see that it was S$60 per person for the Saturday matches and S$100 per person for Sunday's finals!!
With prices so expensive, I'd better keeep my eyes wide open for every shot!
Almost the same price as a musical in Singapore. Maybe musicals here are cheaper given people arent so cultured here.
Saturday, November 16, 2013
Friday, November 15, 2013
Settled
After a whole load of travelling which included Taipei, Singapore, Cebu, Hong Kong, Foshan and then Beijing last week, finally I can settle back in Shanghai.
Plus now that Someone is back, I can kick back and enjoy some home cooked food.
Here in Shanghai, fishballs are different from those in Singapore. They dont have fishcakes here. So we have to bring these two items from Singapore.
There they are. Glorious fishcakes.
Plus now that Someone is back, I can kick back and enjoy some home cooked food.
Here in Shanghai, fishballs are different from those in Singapore. They dont have fishcakes here. So we have to bring these two items from Singapore.
There they are. Glorious fishcakes.
Thursday, November 14, 2013
Sticks!
Ever since I moved to China, I started to make my own drinks in the office. I probably have at least seven kinds of teas in my drawer, milo, cereal, etc.
I have many cups which exasperates my secretary because she says the cleaning aunty has difficulty remembering which ones belong to who and therefore cant bring the cups back after they're washed.
We have a nice pantry in the office but it's very deficient in terms of cutlery. So I end up bringing disposable chopsticks to work be used as stirrers.
We havent been eating out much so my supply is now lacking.
Decided to spend S$2 to buy 50 pairs. That can last me 100 days!
w00t!
I have many cups which exasperates my secretary because she says the cleaning aunty has difficulty remembering which ones belong to who and therefore cant bring the cups back after they're washed.
We have a nice pantry in the office but it's very deficient in terms of cutlery. So I end up bringing disposable chopsticks to work be used as stirrers.
We havent been eating out much so my supply is now lacking.
Decided to spend S$2 to buy 50 pairs. That can last me 100 days!
w00t!
Wednesday, November 13, 2013
Party!
I attended a house party some weeks back.
I tend to attend more of these when Someone is in town because she's the more social one and my version of a perfect weekend would be badminton in the morning and then the rest of the day spent watching TV with a bubble tea in hand.
Anyway, I digress.
The hostess is a Thai and her husband is a Singaporean, who quite coincidentally was my secondary school junior, but I never saw him before. That's another blog on "Small Small World".
This Thai lady and her husband are very wealthy. I think their individual families are wealthy. They each drive a Ferrari here and I think that while Ferraris are relatively cheaper here in Shanghai. Driving it here in such a dirty place is such a waste of money. I mentioned their wealth really because i think she is quite airy fairy and seems to live in her own world.
For the party, they decided to host this in another apartment that they own in Shanghai. It's a 300sqm apartment with a view of this:
That was the Huang Pu River, in case you didnt know.
First of all, they apparently dont have plates there so we were responsible for bringing disposable cutlery.
The cuisine for the night was supposed to be Thai.
But by 1pm on day of the dinner. she hadn't informed the groupchat of 16 people where the dinner will be and what time.
I told Someone it's as though it was a "Diner en Blanc" - secret location, secret time.
We eventually got the time (7pm) but at 6pm, we were told to come at 730pm instead because the food took longer than expected.
Then 20 minutes later, she messaged again to say we can come at 7pm now. Diao.
On the way there, we were informed that her husband bought more food and she's angry and she decided not to make tom yum soup. Someone in the chat had to beg her to make before she changed her mind. In the end, there was tom yum soup.
When we reached there, I saw mountains and mountains of food. Upon closer inspection, it was a huge mountain of hokkien mee, huge mountain of carrot cake and huge pool of curry chicken. That was mind boggling for me. It was a whole cacophony of mixed emotions. My mind was swirling at the copious amount of food but yet my brain is telling me this isnt Thai food! This is Singapore food.
Then..
Then i saw the Thai food.
Two tiny take-away-boxes-sized portions of pork (which turned out very nice), one normal sized plate of chicken (very dry) and two normal sized plates of vegetables (not my cuppa). That definitely wasnt enough for 16 people! And of course tom yum soup. There wasnt really enough so everyone got 3/4 bowl of it.
No wonder her husband went to get extra food. And he even got it at my favourite Singapore restaurant here. But man, to begin with Singapore food here is expensive, and with the amount of food he bought, I think the hokkien mee alone was at least S$100! There was so so much food that most people could bring back and we ate the hokkien mee for lunch the next day - enough for two of us!
What a bimbo! If her husband didnt save the day, we would all have gone home hungry.
I tend to attend more of these when Someone is in town because she's the more social one and my version of a perfect weekend would be badminton in the morning and then the rest of the day spent watching TV with a bubble tea in hand.
Anyway, I digress.
The hostess is a Thai and her husband is a Singaporean, who quite coincidentally was my secondary school junior, but I never saw him before. That's another blog on "Small Small World".
This Thai lady and her husband are very wealthy. I think their individual families are wealthy. They each drive a Ferrari here and I think that while Ferraris are relatively cheaper here in Shanghai. Driving it here in such a dirty place is such a waste of money. I mentioned their wealth really because i think she is quite airy fairy and seems to live in her own world.
For the party, they decided to host this in another apartment that they own in Shanghai. It's a 300sqm apartment with a view of this:
That was the Huang Pu River, in case you didnt know.
First of all, they apparently dont have plates there so we were responsible for bringing disposable cutlery.
The cuisine for the night was supposed to be Thai.
But by 1pm on day of the dinner. she hadn't informed the groupchat of 16 people where the dinner will be and what time.
I told Someone it's as though it was a "Diner en Blanc" - secret location, secret time.
We eventually got the time (7pm) but at 6pm, we were told to come at 730pm instead because the food took longer than expected.
Then 20 minutes later, she messaged again to say we can come at 7pm now. Diao.
On the way there, we were informed that her husband bought more food and she's angry and she decided not to make tom yum soup. Someone in the chat had to beg her to make before she changed her mind. In the end, there was tom yum soup.
When we reached there, I saw mountains and mountains of food. Upon closer inspection, it was a huge mountain of hokkien mee, huge mountain of carrot cake and huge pool of curry chicken. That was mind boggling for me. It was a whole cacophony of mixed emotions. My mind was swirling at the copious amount of food but yet my brain is telling me this isnt Thai food! This is Singapore food.
Then..
Then i saw the Thai food.
Two tiny take-away-boxes-sized portions of pork (which turned out very nice), one normal sized plate of chicken (very dry) and two normal sized plates of vegetables (not my cuppa). That definitely wasnt enough for 16 people! And of course tom yum soup. There wasnt really enough so everyone got 3/4 bowl of it.
No wonder her husband went to get extra food. And he even got it at my favourite Singapore restaurant here. But man, to begin with Singapore food here is expensive, and with the amount of food he bought, I think the hokkien mee alone was at least S$100! There was so so much food that most people could bring back and we ate the hokkien mee for lunch the next day - enough for two of us!
What a bimbo! If her husband didnt save the day, we would all have gone home hungry.
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
Boring no?
Someone and I are rather boring travellers I feel. I think the bulk of the blame lies with me.
Because I cherish every meal and dont want to eat a bad meal or waste a meal eating a bad meal, if we go to cities/locations that we have been before, we will usually eat at the same and familiar places.
When we were in Taipei, we ate at the same beef noodles place three or four times during our seven days there. We went to the same ice cream place five times. As if to prove my point, we will be going back to Taipei at the end of the year again.
We have gone to Beijing three times ever since i moved to Shanghai. We eat at the same Peking duck restaurant all the time and we go to the same mall all the time and we go to the same hole in the wall BBQ skewer place. This time we had more days and we ended up going twice to the same duck place and didnt go to others that my friend recommended.
A little more on this tiny skewer place. We always come here because Someone get to know this place years ago and the "satays" are cheap and good.
Here's the menu. We ate so many sticks and only spent RMB44 for two of us.
Because I cherish every meal and dont want to eat a bad meal or waste a meal eating a bad meal, if we go to cities/locations that we have been before, we will usually eat at the same and familiar places.
When we were in Taipei, we ate at the same beef noodles place three or four times during our seven days there. We went to the same ice cream place five times. As if to prove my point, we will be going back to Taipei at the end of the year again.
We have gone to Beijing three times ever since i moved to Shanghai. We eat at the same Peking duck restaurant all the time and we go to the same mall all the time and we go to the same hole in the wall BBQ skewer place. This time we had more days and we ended up going twice to the same duck place and didnt go to others that my friend recommended.
A little more on this tiny skewer place. We always come here because Someone get to know this place years ago and the "satays" are cheap and good.
Here's the menu. We ate so many sticks and only spent RMB44 for two of us.
Monday, November 11, 2013
Company Outing
Im not sure if I blogged about this before.
Every year my company does a small outing to somewhere outside Shanghai.
This year, they chose some places that I (and i suspect a lot of the Chinese colleagues) have never heard before. The response wasnt that great. I even tried to wriggle out by scheduling a work trip during that period.
For some odd reason, I opened my big mouth and suggested paintball. Everyone got excited. Apparently, they call it 成人CS here. CS presumably meaning Counterstrike.
So it's an afternoon of paintball, then dinner then KTV. I heard there's going to be a competition. I wonder if i should prepare a song ahead. Hmmm...
Every year my company does a small outing to somewhere outside Shanghai.
This year, they chose some places that I (and i suspect a lot of the Chinese colleagues) have never heard before. The response wasnt that great. I even tried to wriggle out by scheduling a work trip during that period.
For some odd reason, I opened my big mouth and suggested paintball. Everyone got excited. Apparently, they call it 成人CS here. CS presumably meaning Counterstrike.
So it's an afternoon of paintball, then dinner then KTV. I heard there's going to be a competition. I wonder if i should prepare a song ahead. Hmmm...
Sunday, November 10, 2013
Connected
When I have some time to spare, I usually like to take the train back to Shanghai when I'm in Beijing.
Although it's a five-hour ride compared to a 2.5 hour flight, the time saved in checking in earlier, etc and the near ubiquitous flight delay just means the train is more reliable.
Plus I can use my portable wifi thingy.
So here I am, laptop on, wifi on, laptop on with TV. Makes five hours zoom pass faster than 300km/h.
Although it's a five-hour ride compared to a 2.5 hour flight, the time saved in checking in earlier, etc and the near ubiquitous flight delay just means the train is more reliable.
Plus I can use my portable wifi thingy.
So here I am, laptop on, wifi on, laptop on with TV. Makes five hours zoom pass faster than 300km/h.
Thursday, November 07, 2013
Simple?
Near-Death!
It’s never a good thing after a
near-death experience to travel to a shopping haven.
After such
an experience, it’s normal to think that money doesn’t matter at all. That
money is an object outside life.
With this
mentality, coupled with the impending winter, I sought to buy a coat while in
Hong Kong.
After a zeroing
into one, I realised that it is actually more expensive than in Singapore. And
Singapore is more expensive than Europe.
I have always
been a believer that most things worth doing needs some effort.
That began a
search. A search on which countries in Europe is the cheapest and
correspondingly where I have a friend whom I can ship the item to so that
he/she can send it back to Singapore where Someone can bring back for me.
UK, Italy,
France, Germany…
Once I identified
that UK is the cheapest, I then had to decide if I used Fedex, UPS, DHL.. my UK
friend told me Royal Mail would be the cheapest. I even had to choose the
fastest option to make sure it made it to Singapore before Someone left
Singapore.
After some nail biting, which included the tracking site of
Royal Mail being down for two days, it’s finally by my side. For all my
efforts, including shipping costs, I saved S$800. YAY!
Wednesday, November 06, 2013
Lightning Struck!
Launching
not one, but two wonderful ipads.
I have been
in search for a smaller ipad so that I can carry around more often now that I don’t
drive in China.
Ahead of
both ipads reaching the shops, I went to buy a Lightning to micro-USB adaptor in
advance online the other day. Hee hee.
Now we wait.
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